Do the Chinese celebrate Valentine’s Day?-by Dr Harold Gunatillake

It’s fascinating to see how various cultures celebrate this special occasion! In China, many people joyfully embrace the day by celebrating love and friendship, just like in so many other parts of the world. It’s heartwarming to see how universally this day brings people together to share joy and connection.
Yes, it’s called the Qixi Festival—a beautiful celebration that feels warmer and more personal compared to Western Valentine’s Day, which tends to be more commercialised.
The beautiful legend of the Qixi Festival is truly heartwarming.
Niulang, affectionately called the Cow Head, and Zhinu, a talented weaver girl, fell deeply in love, even though their families did not approve of their relationship.
Queen Mother of Heaven gently separated them with the beautiful Milky Way, and the lovers are only able to meet once a year, on the 7th day of the 7th lunar month, when cheerful magpies come together to form a lovely bridge.
Some lovely traditions include girls praying to Zhinu for skills and love. Couples enjoy exchanging heartfelt gifts, such as handmade items or beautiful flowers, and savour QiaoGuo—delicious sweet pastries believed to bring good luck.
I had a delightful evening with a lovely group of Chinese tourists at Valentin’s evening celebration, held at the renowned Oak Ray Regency hotel in Getamabe Kandy Centre.
Guests happily enjoyed a variety of Asian dishes and sweets served buffet-style, making their romantic dinner conversations even more delightful.
Let me show you some video clips of the evening.
It was a warm and joyful celebration of love and togetherness. The Qixi Festival holds special significance in Chinese culture. It’s not only a time for romance but also a cherished occasion for honouring traditions and worship.
Please enjoy the rest of the video as I did. Wishing you a wonderful evening filled with love and cherished traditions. Goodbye!

